http://www.wikisposure.com/The_%22Fayla%22_Incident

Perhaps there is a biological element to pedophilia; research has yet to determine this conclusively. However, don’t most serial killers have a mental imbalance of sorts? I am not equating murder to child molestation, but I just wanted to make a point about the biological factors associated with crime, and whether or not they should be grounds for deeming a perp as a ‘victim.’

I really liked this article. I am a conservative, and it is nice to see an article written by a fellow conservative who does not link homosexuality inherently with pedophilia.

Thankfully real experts have taken into account that humanity is not as morally guided or spiritual as you idiots believe we are. I’m not a nihilist, but I at least know that human beings are animals, and just like every other animal we have sexual inclinations which may not seem logical or moral.

In the wild we see animals engage in incest, pedophilia, rape, homosexuality, and even sodomy. So the idiots who try to justify their notions of right and wrong, calling those who are wrong ‘degenerates’ obviously overlook the truth that is natural behavior.

I won’t go so far as to say that pedophilia is a good thing. Far from it. I think the act is wrong, because the child is harmed in the process. I might even be as emotional as you, and say that those who actually engage in sex with children are disgusting, but that’s an emotional response, and emotional responses tend to be as meaningless as this entire drab article.

Pedophilia IS a preference, just like homosexuality IS a preference. A couple decades ago and you might be including homosexuals in your ‘degenerate’ category. The difference is the ability to get consent from a willing partner. This can’t happen with a pedophile. There are some are erroneous in thinking that the child can enjoy the sexual activity the same as an adult, and there are some who are sociopaths who don’t care about the well-being of the child… the same could be said about a rapist who rapes middle aged men or women, who thinks his victim enjoyed it or doesn’t care.

Should we just destroy these people? I think our society has advanced enough that we should learn to identify the behavior early on and give the person proper counselling… instead of waiting for them to act on these behaviors and then send them to death row… there will be fewer victims if we take the time to study and figure out the right way to deal with these people. Articles like this just prove that there are still people who would rather think that pedophiles are some sort of anomaly that will fade over time. The truth is, pedophiles are extremely common. It’s estimated that 1 in every 10 men have some sort of sexual inclination towards girls who are very young. Though it’s probably much higher, given that it’s like people lie during testing.

I’ve been a paedophile since I was nine or ten. (Something to consider for all of those who merely focus on paedophile men). At that age I was attracted to 4-5 year olds. Borderline paedophilia, paedophilia none the less as dictated by the law.

If I had to be besieged by a sexual deviancy, then I wish it homosexuality and not paedophilia. But, that is not the hand that was dealt to me. Being on the registy, I’ve been victimised (and I will use this word) by a community far removed from where my crime took place. I had to stop going to church and was threatened that if I pick my kids up from daycare that I will be thrown into jail. My neighbours point fingers at me and have pretty slandered my name. Why? Because they drew their conclusions from the registry. Even the fact that I have two kids was met with scorn: “I hope he’s not hurting those kids.” was what I overheard on lady saying.

So, my supposed trying to re-enter Society as a productive member of Society is merely a fairy tale existence. Because of this reality, I’ve become angry and extremely antisocial. Relying on the fact that you never know your enemies until it’s too late, so I strongly feel that everyone is my enemy. Less, I let my guard down a let one in.

My rage against Society only deepened when I learnt that my registration, once for only 10 years, has been been uppped to life. So my plans of truly enjoying life with my kids by attending school plays and pageants and other activities has been thrown out of the window.

I don’t want sympathy. I’m not innocent (but then again, no one is truly innocent so I’m pretty sure the Holy Rollers know what to do with that innocent finger of theirs). I made some regrettable mistakes in my past. A lot of things in my life I’d love to change. But I sure as hell don’t want to be a victim. In the end, I am a victim. We are victims. When the Nazis made Jews wear incriminating yellow stars on their clothing simply for being Jewish, were they not victims? And don’t hand me that crap about them being “innocent”. Some of them were probably embezzlers, adulterers, thieves, and maybe even a rapist or two (and dare I say a child rapist) who just hadn’t been caught.

I see life through different perspectives. I have been on both side of the debate: A sex offender and now a father. No one wants to side with the sex offender, it is political and social suicide to do so. The media has made it that way.Everyone is blinded by disgust and hate. Our culture preaches love and acceptance, and the need to forgive and move on with to better things. Yet, they victimise a group of people because they screwed up some time ago. We say nobody’s perfect, yet we mark those that fall.

I’m am grateful that I am able to understand exactly what is inside of me and find ways to unleash that anger and hurt.

The killing of a child by a RSO? I’ve mulled that over so many times, asking myself Why would a person do that? I asked myself the hardest question of all: Would I be willing to do that? And I had to be completely honest with myself. I say no because believe it or not, I am empathic to others. Some would disagree, but I’m sure those persons don’t make it a habit to think outside their comfort zones.

But, I think I understand why another RSO is more likely to kill a child as one poster has already brought up. Most certainly, the killing of the child is a result of 1.) a attempt at secrecy and 2.) if discovered, the perpetrator hopes to face the death penalty. The problem is that the homework doesn’t get done. Death penalties are usually sought for extreme, well-planned, thought-out murders. Basically, anything under a first degree murder and you’re most likely looking at a mere life sentence.

If the case has enough media coverage, then the perp will be isolated from the rest of the population and the taxpayers will foot the bill.

I attest that paedophilia is a sexual orientation. I believe it because I suffer with it. However, I don’t see man-child sex as viable, as much as I’d like it to be. There is a very thin line in such a relationship. A very thin line that shifts with each individual child. The boy I performed oral sex on was want is considered a YF or “young friend”. We knew each other for two years. I was arrested when my yf confided in a buddy that we were in a relationship. His buddy immediately told someone else who told someone else. And eventually an adult found out and I was arrested.

Today, I’m still friends with my yf. He’s a man now, married with kids of his own. He keeps telling me how bad he feels because he never wanted me to get into trouble. I keep telling him that I knew the costs, and that I don’t regret it one bit.

How is the registry fair? Being on the registry is hell. And no one gives a damn because they aren’t the ones whose lives are displayed for the world the see. For a crime that (in my case) happened over 10 years ago. Everyone on the registry aren’t child rapists. To say so is narrow-minded and ignorant. There are 15 year olds who have to register for life for having sex with a 13 year old student! Five years from now, you’ll see that same teenager on the registry and you and a whole new generation of parents and activists will look at his face lassify him as a child rapist. Forever.

The registry is a joke. If I wanted to molest a child, I have ample opportunity to do such on a day-to-day basis. Hospitalisation? Why? If I’m determined to try and make the most of the haphazard life that’s been handed to me why should I be committed to a hospital? Beside I might be a threat? In that case, we should hospitalise everyone drinking in a bar, lest they get into a car and kill someone.

Sorry to barge in, just passing through.