But if I’m the idiot why don’t you having lazy pot-smokers getting a buzz babysitting your kids, which is what the story is about? When ever some gutterslut whose old man acts exactly like some criminal in a story they start screeching about how everyone is stupid but them. Prove it. Argue the point I make in the post, not the strawman that I claim I’m perfect.

Although I of course am.

ahahahhahahahaahahahahahah WOW guy, you must be SOOO perfect. are you KIDDING me?!!?!! I dont think if a normal man drank a 6 pack a day even, they would want to kill a kid. YOU ARE A FUCKING IDIOT.

Very thoughtfully worded, Rob. Intelligent and so very much on the mark.

Not to reveal the sordid details I like to remain private about my life, but when my husband used to drink heavily, he scared the hel out of me on a daily basis. Did he drink every day? No. Maybe once a week. It was that once a week partying that created the monster just under the surface that would have reared its ugly head into physical reality if I hadn’t acted in time. He is not the same man today; although once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. That is due 100% to my refusal to ignore the signs in front of me and refuse to let a man come before the safety of my child – or me.

Oh, and he is also a recovering marijuana addict. He never gets the urge for that again and recoils at the sheer mention of his nasty past under its influence. He tries to tell people he knows from back home what that stuff is doing to them and tries to get them to get off of it. Their response has always been, every single time, to tell him he is “high and mighty” and accuse him of thinking he’s “all that” when he used to do it, too – like he forgot his past, which he hasn’t, and is speaking down to them, which he would never do.

He was the same way. They all are, addicts. They don’t want to hear it, not even from those who finally escaped the hold it had on them. The best you can do is continue posting horrific stories like this as often as you can.

In the midst of the attacks you receive by those in denial of it all, there are many you do reach. You’re doing a great job here exposing this. Seems so few do but you’re a brilliant exception. Thank you.